Xavier Bourgeois was the great nephew of my great-great-great-great grandfather, Michel Bourgeois. We have no evidence that he emigrated with other family, and I have not looked at death records past about 1850 so I don't know his fate.
Xavier was born in 1791, and in late 1823, at 32 he married a woman named Francoise Schindler. Francoise was about 30 and the mother of an illegitimate infant daughter, Francoise, born in Fulleren in 1822. Xavier and Francoise had pretty a pretty depressing child-bearing experience. Their first child, Anne, born 12 months after the wedding, apparently died young, as they named a second daughter Anne*. Xavier and Marie are the next two children and then came an infant in May of 1830 who was stillborn. In August of 1830, young Francoise died; she was 8. Their last child, another Anne, was born in 1831. And then I lose track of the family.
Aside from the pain of losing, I think, three of six children, there's the coldness of the child Francoise's death report. In it, the officials declare she was illegitimate. That's true. But what I found troubling is that the death report makes no mention of Xavier; Francoise, the mother, is a "journaliere" (laborer). Francoise died "dans la maison de Xavier Bourgeois," not in her mother's home. There is no mention made that Francoise and Xavier are married.
I suppose this is a good place to mention that sex before marriage was common in early 19th century France, to the great dismay of the Catholic church. The number of healthy, sturdy children born 5 or 6 months after a wedding was a scandal, and it wasn't that unusual for a couple to celebrate their betrothal with a bit more ardor than was seemly and then for him to depart -- for the army, for a job in the city -- or die. So Francoise's indiscretion wasn't the moral outrage it may have been in a different time or place. And obviously, Xavier had some reason to marry her, though it may have been that she'd already demonstrated fecundity. The Bourgeois family seems to have been highly regarded by their community, judging by the number of marriages that occur between various Bourgeois and other families of position. So I don't think Xavier married Francoise because he could do no better. I would like to believe he married her because he had some warm regard for her (marrying for love was an anomaly in the 19th century), but my guess is he had darker reasons.
The coldness of the death report makes me wonder about the lives of Francoise and her mother. My acquaintance in France tells me that men of that era often took in the illegitimate children of their wives, giving them their name, but not in this case. Xavier gave her (and her mother) a place to live, but it isn't clear he embraced them with warmth. I know nothing about this man, but I don't particularly like him. Interesting how a bare bones official document can arouse such intense emotion.
*It's also possible that this is another case where a child gets one name and then somehow ends up using another. But both Annes are simply Anne on their birth records.
ADDENDUM, 27 Feb. 2016.
A few days ago, I got a notice from Geneanet.org, where part of the family tree is posted, that a new Bourgeois entry had been found. When I checked it out, I was linked to a website called SteHelene.org. This site lists the names of hundreds of thousands of Frenchmen who were awarded the St. Helene Medal of Honor in 1857 for service in Napolean's army.
Xavier Bourgeois, born 3-Dec-1791, served with Napolean from 1811 to 1814. He’s one of only two relatives I could find who fought in the French Revolution.